Let me share a few examples of what i see. ??Have you ever heard someone say, “It doesn’t matter how guilty you are, but how slick your lawyer is?” That’s where many of us are as we evaluate the legal system. Certain athletes-turned-celebrities can apparently even murder their wives or lovers and “get away with it.” Life is full of compromises. Right?Third, try to avoid as much stress as possible – especially during the earliest stages of a diet. Eating binges are often the result of high stress levels.